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Feeling stuck? At a crossroads in your career or emotional life? Even the strongest among us can feel lost, unsure, ambivalent, or unhappy at times. As a professional Counsellor, I can help you understand and manage whatever life throws at you, and how to do it successfully. I believe that you have the strength not just to survive, but to truly thrive.

I work from a residential address in Gravesend, allowing me to be flexible with hours to suit your individual needs.

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About Me

Experienced Counselling Professional


Fiona Phillips. Dip Integritive counselling


I believe I was born to be a counsellor. I am naturally very empathetic and non- judgemental. I have overcome many personal challenges throughout my life, and belive each and every obstacle was put there to help me relate to others later in my counselling career. I am patient, and have been told on numerous occasions I am both warm, and friendly. 


With a history of working in the mental health field, with people of all ages and abilities and later becoming a fully qualified counsellor I’ve helped many clients break through the obstacles that seem to be holding them back in life. I've worked with victims of domestic violence, individuals with complex mental health illnesses, in a palliative care setting, with substance misuse, alongside individuals suffering with eating disorders, anxiety, depression and much more. I genuinely like people. I understand that we are all very different and wholly embrace that. 

My integritive style of training enables me to use many different approches of therapy, as I recognise that "one size" certainly does not fit all. In fact, I would honestly say that I have never worked with two clients in the same way. I sometimes use art therapies in my work. Other times, a more traditional approach is more appropriate. 

I am a member of the BACP (British Association for Counsellors and Psychotherapists) And I work strictly within their ethical framework. I honour the trust placed in me by clients, and strive to treat everyone equally and fairly.

Life is way too short to be unhappy, anxious, unsure, or unfulfilled. Please let me help you learn and develop better ways to handle the issues that are standing in the way of your goals. Lets work together to find an approach that suits you. I would love to hear from you today to see how best we can assist you to achieve YOUR goals.

Some Styles of Approach

Help That Makes a Difference

Person Centred Approach

I believe that each and every one of us has the potential to know what is best for us. Using a person centred approach, we will work to your agenda, in a very non directive manner, helping you to reconnect with your own values and sense of self worth, helping you find your own way forward.


Psychodynamic Approach

A psychodynamic approach brings the unconscious mind into consciousness - I will help you to unravel, experience and understand your true, deep-rooted feelings in order to resolve them.

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Embrace the Future with Gravesham Counselling Service

Live Your Best Life

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I can help you discover mindfulness and relaxation techniques to help you manage your feelings in the here and now.

“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment”


Frequently Asked Questions

Find Your Answers Here...

What is counselling?

Counselling should always provide a safe, impartial and confidential space in which to explore your feelings. Talking to a professional in a confidential setting, and safe in the knowledge that what you say will be respectfully listened to, will often help you to understand what is making you feel a certain way.
All of us at some point in our lives will experience times when we feel that we are overwhelemd or cannot cope. These feelings often impact on other areas of our life. These feelings may affect our academic studies, our relationship with others, or our personal life, to the extent that we feel unable to live in a successful or satisfactory way. This may be the time to seek out a counsellor.
Feelings such as anger, grief, anxiety and loneliness can be distressing and cause anguish, especially if they have been with us for a long period of time.  Counselling can help you to explore and reflect upon these feelings. It can help you to understand what is at the root of the concern, and can help you to work towards resolving these difficulties.

What happens in a counselling session?

Counselling is not advice and may feel different from other types of help. It is a process where I can help you to explore and understand difficulties, and then help you to develop your own resources to cope with them. I will always treat you with respect and treat your concerns with sensitivity. You will be carefully listened to, and at the end of counselling there is usually a better understanding of how to cope with both existing and future difficulties.


At present, I work from a residential address in Gravesend. Sessions will last 50 minutes and are usually weekly. Where possible, sessions are the same day and time every week, as experience has shown that consistency aids the theraputic process.

In some circumstances I will see clients in their own home or conduct sessions by telephone. This would have to be discussed in advance.

How much does counselling cost?

  • The cost of counselling varies a great deal from different agencies. At Gravesham Counselling Service you can guarantee a competive rate. 

  • One to one counselling starts at £50*

  • Our first meeeting will be a no obligation assessment session, and will take at least 1 hour. This session allows us to look at your particular struggles and how we can work together to move you forward. This will be charged at the usual fee, despite often taking a little longer than a usual session.

  • Sessions thereafter will be 50 minute sessions weekly for one to one counselling, and 60 minutes for couples. 

      *Please note*

  • Costs depend on individual circumstances, and day / time of sessions. 

  •  Fees are negotiable for those on very low incomes. I provide counselling at a low cost service, but these appointments are limited, and may be subject to a waiting list.

  • Evening appointments are also subject to availability, and usually at a slightly higher rate.

  • At present I am unable to offer any weekend appointments.

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This lady is a god send! Myself and family are amazed at how much you have helped me. I didnt think anybody could change much from my past but your sessions have imroved mine and my family's life. the progress that has been made has had such an impact on not only just myself but my family thankyou so much. Bottling things up for a good 15+ years I didnt think it would be possible to feel comfortable enough to talk. Now having had the sessions I wish I would have had this years ago. One step at a time, I feel like you have given me strength I never knew I had!  I would highly reccomend Fiona Phillips.

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Get in touch..

Please leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as possible. If you feel comfortable, it would be useful for you to explain your reasons for enquiring about counselling, and your preffered times for sessions.

I have ample parking facilities close by. 

Please note; You are more than welcome to call me directly or send a text if you prefer, rather than filling in the contact form below. I will still get back to you as soon as possible if I am unavailable when you first get in touch.

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